Love in Strange Places: 1/8 B ❤️

Is Finding the One Worth Suffering For Truly Possible?

Finding the one person out of 8 billion people on this planet can seem like an impossible task. As Bob Marley said, “We all gonna get hurt by someone, and it’s our goal to find the one worth suffering for”. But how can we know if we’ve found that special someone or if we’re just wasting each other’s time? Love is a complex puzzle and it can be hard to figure out how to put the pieces together without hurting each other.

The best way to know if you’ve found the right person is to take your time and get to know them. Don’t rush into anything and take the time to really get to know the person. Ask questions and really listen to the answers. This will help you to understand who they are and what they want out of life.

It’s also important to be honest with each other. If there are any issues or concerns, be open and honest about them. Communication is key in any relationship and it’s essential to be able to talk about your feelings.

It’s also important to be willing to compromise. No relationship is perfect and it’s important to be willing to make adjustments and compromises in order to make the relationship work.

Many relationships fail based on tainted pasts. Many people in relationships live in their heads and impose and project past fears in their current relationships. They get hung up on ideas of could’ve, would’ve and should’ve and past traumas without realizing it. It is important that we realize this and grant time for honest dialogue or we risk creating contentious environments.

Not allowing time for self-healing allows for cycles to occur in our lives that are quite displeasing to all parties involved. Hurt people, hurt people is the saying and LOVE is too beautiful and powerful an energy and connection to be tainted by primal egos by mere mortals.

Puff once said you wanna walk with them or do you wanna walk with God? Love is not dependent on another person. Love is a state of being. We are each our own representation of LOVE! Our connection should allow this pure energy of Love to be passed on to each other through the connections we create together. So before making any brash decisions in your relationships sit and have a talk with God. We should be so blindsided by Love, for two worlds make a universe.

Ultimately, God is the ultimate source of love and wisdom and can help guide you to the best decision for all involved. He knows your heart and soul and will provide you the wisdom to make the best decisions for you and your partner. He will also provide you with the strength and courage to have honest dialogue and to forgive and heal from your past. He will also provide you with the patience to allow your relationship to grow and flourish and to not get hung up on the past. He will also provide you with the peace and understanding to accept and appreciate each other for who you are and to be mindful of each other’s feelings. He will also provide you with the hope and faith to trust in the process and to never give up on each other.

Finally, it’s important to trust your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t. Don’t be afraid to listen to your gut and follow your heart.
Finding the one person out of 8 billion people on this planet can seem like an impossible task. But if you take your time and get to know the person, be honest, compromise, and trust your instincts, you can find the one worth suffering for. 1/8B is a beautiful position to hold.
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